Today we are living in a difficult yet ever-changing environment, and there are different expectations from individuals in order to make their lives successful and pleasant. In my opinion, it is entirely okay to dream about our goals, but for our part, it is also logical and wise to think deeply because high expectations and unrealistic goals may cause us to lose what we have worked so hard to achieve. Even though we may work very hard and our intentions may be perfect, things may still go either way. Trying our best with realistic expectations will at least enable us to accept whatever the outcome without feeling heavy inside our hearts. There are many ways we can learn things in our lives and one of the best ways is to learn from our own experiences, because we have all gone through ups and downs which can really teach us valuable lessons in our lives. There are no easy fixes and we cannot expect miracles to happen in everyday life, however, if we learn from our own experiences and from others, we can at least hope for a smoother landing in our chaotic lives.