Hatred and jealousy will not win the hearts of others, but will only alienate them further. Respect and a certain degree of care and love will bring others closer to us. In the beginning, to develop a kind heart may be difficult, however in the long run, such an attitude will guarantee us happiness and respect from others. It is always better to face hurdles in the short term in order to benefit in the long term. Hong Kong.8/7/13