We cannot really blame anyone for the difficult decisions they make, since what others see might not be what we think it is. However, personally, I would try my best to say what is inside my heart even though sometimes others may not like to listen. There are people who sometimes say something, but in their hearts something else is written. Thus, there is separation. These words are just empty words. Words are only meaningful when they come from the heart. Otherwise we are just making hollow and artificial gestures.